
Retire Before Mom and Dad: The Simple Numbers Behind A Lifetime of Financial Freedom by Rob Berger is a personal finance book published in 2019.
One of the biggest goals for many people is to enjoy retirement, not work until death. However, the average American aged 60-64 only has about $221,451 in retirement savings. If that money isn’t invested, it would only provide around $7,381 annually.
Retirement planning often feels overwhelming, but Berger simplifies the process, showing that anyone can retire comfortably, regardless of their income.
The Five Big Lies:
- Financial freedom requires a big salary
- Financial freedom takes 40 years or longer
- Happiness is expensive
- Investing is complicated
- Debt is a fact of life
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Table of Contents
Part One – Your Superpower
What Is The Money Multiplier?
- Compounding (Money Multiplier)
- Earn money on both your original investment AND the money it earned
- Wealth multiplication with no extra effort
- Hypothetical Example:
- Salary: $50,000
- Time: 45 years (age 22 to 67)
- Savings: 5% (~$208/month)
- Return: 9.3% (historical average of diversified portfolio since 1926)
- Results:
- Without investing: $112,320
- With investing: $1,708,072
How Does The It Work? — The 3 Components
- Power of Time
- Original Hypothetical = $1,708,072
- Start 1 year later → $153,504 less
- Start 5 years later → $643,197 less
- Start 20 years later → $1,462,889 less
- Power of Amount
- Small changes grow big – like a forest from a seed
- Changing monthly savings from:
- $208 to $200 → $65,695 less
- $208 to $225 → $139,602 more
- Power of Return
- 1926–2017: 70% stock / 30% bond return = 9.3%
- 9.3% return → $1,708,072
- 9.0% return → $1,540,214
Part 2 – Financial Freedom
7 Levels of Financial Independence
Financial Freedom = the ability to live off your savings
- Levels allow you to monitor progress
- Even if not fully independent, having a growing retirement account gives you freedom to make decisions you otherwise couldn’t
- At Level 4, yearly return starts to equal yearly savings
- Levels 1 – 3 and Levels 5 – 7 take the same amount of time
- Compounding makes big money for you
Level 1 — 1 Month of Expenses Saved
Level 2 — 3 Months of Expenses Saved
Level 3 — 6 Months of Expenses Saved
Level 4 — 1 Year of Expenses Saved
Level 5 -— 5 Years of Expenses Saved
Level 6 — 10 Years of Expenses Saved
Level 7 — 25 Years of Expenses Saved
How Much Should You Save?
- “Slingshot Effect” → exponential financial growth
- Frank: Saves $500 / Spends $4,500 → 9 months to save 1 month of expenses
- John: Saves $1,000 / Spends $4,000 → 4 months to save 1 month of expenses
- Savings Rate > Salary
- 10% savings rate comparison:
- $500k income → Save $50k / Spend $450k
- $50k income → Save $5k / Spend $45k
- Both need 9 years to save 1 year of expenses
- 10% savings rate comparison:
Why Is 25 Years Of Expenses The Goal? The 4% Rule
- Save 25x your annual expenses to retire
- Why? → Withdrawing 4% per year is a common rule to make savings last for life
- Factors in inflation, market dips, and conservative portfolios
- Annual Expenses ÷ 0.04 = Target Retirement Savings
- $100k/yr → $2.5 million
- $50k/yr → $1.25 million
- It’s more achievable than it sounds thanks to compounding
- $5/day for 45 years → $1.23 million
Part 3 – Buying Your Freedom
The Cost Of Happiness
- Many joys are low-cost – time with loved ones, nature, exercise, books
- “Value Planning” (Smart Couples Finish Rich – David Bach)
- Define how money supports your values and goals
- Align spending and saving with what truly matters
The Myth Of Sacrifice, The Money Audit, & The Power Of Habits
- Most lifestyle changes don’t hurt happiness as much as we fear
- Try removing or changing one habit for 3 weeks (no coffee out, bring lunch, less TV)
- Afterward, ask: Was it really that bad?
- For each item, ask:
- Do I really want or need this?
- Could I use a cheaper version?
- Can I get the same thing for less?
Part 4 – Investing
- Investing is a simple and effective way to build wealth
- However, before investing you need a basic foundation or you’ll make serious mistakes
- The author explains products in easy-to-understand language
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